We all seem to long to belong.

In order to love, there has to be separation and the willingness to connect anew in every moment.

Love demands resistance.

To expect safety in our experience of belonging, in love, seems a sure path to enmeshment and co-dependence.

To connect anew again and again allows for our own transformation and that of “other”, and an ever new encounter with an open mind.

Through resistance we grow, and in the dance of love we continue to expand our experience of self.

In oneness there appears no experience of self and no need for love.